You don’t have to turn yourself into a social butterfly to feel at home in a new environment – there are quieter ways to build a sense of belonging. And even extroverts can learn a trick or two from an introvert’s approach.
A path for everyone
Some of the advice about cultural adjustment that we share on the Global Connection website might not be music to the ears of an introvert. “Get out of your comfort zone! Sign up for events! Join clubs! Mingle!” All very well for extroverts – but introverts may squirm at the thought of it. Even the word ‘networking’ might make them queasy. Rest assured, a slower, more selective approach to expat life can lead you in the right direction.
Socialising on their terms
Of course, introverts don’t reject the idea of socialising altogether – they just prefer to do it on their terms. Rather than attending large networking events, they will instinctively gravitate towards smaller gatherings in lowkey settings. A book club, a shared-interest class, or volunteering with a local group can all provide connection without the pressure of being ‘super social’ in a crowded room. And by choosing quality over quantity, introverts can slowly find their place in the community while also shaping a schedule composed of fulfilling activities (whatever they may be).
Creating personal space
Generally speaking, introverts thrive on downtime, reflection, and creative pursuits. They might spend time journalling, or sketching; they might also be runners or cyclists, two activities that naturally lead to exploration of new environments – never a bad thing when you are processing change or trying to feel at home in a new city. Even if you love attending larger, louder social events, making space for quieter or solo activities in your weekly routine can enhance your experience of expat life.
Defining your own success
So if you are an introvert – or an ambivert – don’t fret. There is no secret hack to the perfect expat life. Everyone has their own path. The key is to measure your progress by what feels authentic to you. By embracing your natural style, you can find your place without forcing yourself into someone else’s mould. And if you are an extrovert and wish to borrow a few lessons from the introvert’s playbook, go right ahead – don’t worry, it won’t stop you from being the life of the party when the weekend rolls around.
This article was originally published for the thousands of expat partners that Global Connection supports around the globe. It is reproduced here in its original form.
